timberland hoodies Chat with child welfare experts about the foster care system
Licensing agencies are always on the lookout for families who are willing to open their doors and play that vital parent role while biological families are working towards being able to reunify with their children. Foster parents provide a stable, loving home to children who have experienced trauma. They support the child’s biological family to help them heal and grow. Foster parents work in partnership with other professionals to meet the child’s unique needs. Fosters also have to be able to patiently address the child’s medical, behavioral and emotional needs. All foster parents are trained prior to placement and continue to attend regular training to maintain the skills relevant to foster care.
by Mike Martin 12/13/2013 7:01:14 PM
Before you rule out becoming a foster parent, learn more about it. It may be easier to do than you think. You may also consider becoming a Court Appointed Special Advocate, or CASA. CASAs are volunteers who are specially trained to advocate for children in the court dependency system. Each volunteer spends time with one child or sibling group, meets all of the social workers, service providers, foster providers, teachers and lawyers in the child’s life, and then makes recommendations to the judge for the child’s best interest. This is truly a way to bring the wisdom of the community into the courtroom. You can also become a volunteer board member for the Foster Care Review Board or volunteer for a community agency. It really does take a village to raise a child. You can become part of any child’s village by just supporting them and their parents.
by Victoria McGoldrick 12/13/2013 7:01:42 PM
There are at least three good reasons that more kids are in foster care in Arizona: 1. we don’t invest in prevention programs that work with families to keep them together when that could be a good option. Sometimes counseling and parent training works far better than removing a child. 2. When parents can’t afford child care and still need to work, they become more likely sometimes to leave children in unsafe situations because they have to get to their jobs and that can lead to neglect, and 3, we don’t invest the same amount of money in providing many resources to families at risk that leads to later abuse in some situations.
by Lin Leclair 12/13/2013 7:06:22 PM
My heart breaks for this foster father. Yes, you must prepare for this type of situation to occur. All dependency cases start with a case plan goal of family reunification. There is so much science that tells us that children’s long term success is better if they can be returned home, and it’s really hard to NOT compare a current, stable, loving foster home in a nice area to a parent’s home, and not feel it would be better for the child to stay in the foster home. But if a parent can demonstrate that they have mitigated the situation that brought his or her child into care, and the court determines that the child will be safe, they are returned home. Remember, if children never get to go back to their birthparents, their hearts are broken. I used to tell children, “It’s the grownups’ job to do the hard things.” The best way to mitigate this is to implement evidence based in home services so that children go home much earlier than they do now. This will be better for everyone, and far more cost effective.
by Victoria McGoldrick 12/13/2013 7:10:04 PM
Of course it is difficult to say goodbye as a foster parent. If you were not feeling those pangs of attachment, you were not completely fulfilling the role of a foster parent. Part of dealing with the experience comes from training. Going into the process, foster parents know that fostering is a substitute family for each child. Each of us wants what is the very best outcome for children placed into a foster home, sometimes that means being freed for adoption, sometimes it means being returned home or placed with other family. Foster Parents have, and show, enormous strength and care for the children placed with them by knowing they are providing what is best for the child at that moment. It never makes it easy, but those called to foster have an inordinate ability to love and let go.
by Mike Martin 12/13/2013 7:10:20 PM
Children raised in families who practice positive parenting and refrain from physical punishment overall tend to be less likely to be aggressive and have less behavior problems in general. But we could just as easily ask about children raised in extreme poverty or who have had chronic illnesses who nevertheless overcome these negative experiences and do well.
by Lin Leclair 12/13/2013 7:14:14 PM
There are about 4100 dependent children in Pima County. About 75% of those are in out of home care: foster homes, group homes, shelters, kin placements. The law requires that a child who has been removed from his or her home have a “Permanency Hearing” within one year of removal (or within six months of removal if the child is under three years old). The average time for a dependency case to be open in court is just under two years. About half of these cases end with the children returning home, and currently these are the cases that seem to be staying open longer.
by Victoria McGoldrick 12/13/2013 7:15:29 PM
The answer depends on the interest and ability of the family to make changes. Should a family be able to participate in supportive in home services which help the family make strides toward changing the situation of neglect, then keeping children at home is a definite option. If on the other hand child safety cannot be assured and/or the family has no interest in making the changes necessary, removing a child from the home may be the plan that needs to be followed. In either scenario, child safety is the priority, but supportive services being put into place and the family’s desire to make changes are paramount.
by Mike Martin 12/13/2013 7:22:05 PM
We have learned so much in recent years about the lifelong effects of childhood trauma. Patty Machelor did a great job writing about this in her article in December 10’s Arizona Daily Star. What we’re also learning is that we can mitigate these effects by helping increase a child’s resiliency, and many of the ways to do this are simple. For example, just having one reliable and loving adult in a child’s life can make a huge difference. It is also vital that children are screened for trauma and get trauma focused therapy. There are a number of therapeutic approaches that are short term and effective. Children who are involved in their communities and feel successful at school also seem to do better dealing with their trauma histories.
by Victoria McGoldrick 12/13/2013 7:24:32 PM
Adding more funding into the CPS system, even with all its flaws would still be very helpful. Caseworkers and investigators are required to have caseloads that are so large that they can’t be done successfully. We need to hire more staff, at least for the short term. But, given the entire range of challenges facing Arizona’s families, unless we work to “close the front door” and put in place programs that make it less likely that parents will end up abusing or neglecting their children, we will never turn the tide. Other states invest in these programs, and also provide child care subsidies for working poor parents so they can leave their children in safe educational circumstances while they go to work. When this option is taken away, parents can become desperateby you
by Lin Leclair 12/13/2013 7:28:14 PM
When looking at the homes of potential foster parents, every licensing agency is looking for the elements that fulfill ARS Article 58 which are the laws that cover foster home licensure. The law does not require any family to be of any particular religious persuasion. Guns in the home are allowed, but have to be have to be secured as required in the statute, using gun safes, trigger locks, etc. Responsible drinking by adults is also allowed, however consideration needs to be paid about how, where and when a foster parent may drink so that all children are kept safe and secure.
by Mike Martin 12/13/2013 7:28:50 PM
The first step to licensing is to select your licensing agency. Casa de los Nios holds monthly orientation meetings for those adults who may have an interest on the 3rd Saturday of each month. Our next orientation is on January 18th, 1 2pm at our foster care offices located at 40 N. Swan. At that orientation, interested families of all differing varieties have an opportunity to ask questions and are walked down the path for licensure. Obviously, there is substantial training involved, the completion of a home study, home inspections, etc. The process usually takes multiple months, but the time is worth the effort. We want each family to receive full preparation for the amazing and challenging task of fostering. If you have specific questions you’d like answered, feel free to contact us at 520 326 8250
by Mike Martin 12/13/2013 7:36:20 PM
Far more children are reported to CPS for neglect versus abuse overall, and in fact the number of reported potential abuse cases has increased less rapidly than the number of neglect cases. The difficult decision about whether to remove a child from their home hinges on many factors having to do with the overall severity of the situation, the risks to the child and likelihood that the child can be kept safe if left in the home once the parents agree to participate in intensive counseling and other programs to hopefully change the circumstances that led to the CPS involvement. So, you can imagine both neglect and abuse cases where the child needs to be removed. However, in many other neglect situations, it is easier for the family to make the changes needed to stay together, especially if it is poverty and stress that led to the neglect and somehow additional resources and support can be provided
by Lin Leclair 12/13/2013 7:40:13 PM
Erin birthparents used to be given a lot more time to improve the circumstances that resulted in their children’s removal. This resulted in a lot of “foster care drift:” children spent much of their lives sometimes, going from foster home to foster home. A federal law was enacted in 1997 that requires that a permanent plan for every child be ordered in court within 12 months of a child’s removal. While this has really helped mitigate foster care drift, it makes it really difficult for parents struggling with drug or alcohol addiction to demonstrate stability. In Pima County, about 70% of dependency cases are related to parental drug and alcohol abuse. Fewer than 50% of parents are able to access treatment, enroll in it, complete it and stay clean and sober in less than a year. If a parent has made significant progress at the 12 month mark, it is often best to give them a bit more time. Everyone who works with these cases is constantly trying to ensure two things for each child: having their mother or father returned to them, and helping them feel a sense of safety and permanence. We hear it said often that these parents have chosen drugs over their children. When someone is addicted to a drug, the addiction kind of makes the choices for them.